It's Your Move by Nick Savoy
In an age of instant gratification, the "Battle of the Sexes" is not immune from the same desire for easy solutions and quick fixes. While women have learned to accept their role as choosers in the game of dating and seduction, popular media and magazines catering to them promote harmful myths and superficial answers in their desires to attract and hold onto a quality man. Women are told that all they need to do is just "show up and look pretty" in order to get the man. Or they receive conflicting messages about how to treat a man in order to keep him. But women need just as much skill and technique in order to purse their own goals in the game as men do. Many men have learned how to increase their success with women through concrete techniques in order to improve their "game" and therefore in order to be successful in their own goals, women must now learn how these techniques are being used by men, as well as how to improve their own techniques in order to separate the wheat from the chaff.
Nick Savoy has taught thousands of men how to pursue their goals of attracting and seducing women, and the time has come for him to reveal his secrets. In observing countless male/female interactions, he knows many of the hidden motivations driving both men and women in their eternal dance. Now he will help women in the same way he has helped men, with the result hopefully being more fulfilling relationships for both the women AND men involved.
"Like any elite athlete or 'player,' you need a coach. Nick Savoy is very savvy--he knows what he is talking about. It's Your Move is the official play book for women dating now."
IT'S YOUR MOVE: How to Play the Game and Win the Man You Want by master pickup artist Nick Savoy (Grand Central Publishing; February 5, 2013; 978-1609413989; $13.99) is about to reveal all of the methods thousands of men every year pay to learn. Nick Savoy is the president of Love Systems in Los Angeles, which is a boot camp-based system to teach men how to meet women. He runs boot camps all over the world every weekend and is now about to reveal the secrets he teaches men so women can take the power back!
Every woman wants to get inside men's heads, decode their actions, and above all, learn how to play their game. Nick Savoy can help them do just that. You've seen Will Smith in the movie Hitch-the date doctor, the sentimental advisor...the guy who helps men land the women they want? Meet Nick Savoy: Hitch in real life.
As a top instructor at the leading worldwide dating consultancy for men, Savoy has taught hundreds of thousands his highly effective techniques for attracting, seducing, and dating women. Now, he blows the cover off the multi-million dollar pickup industry, revealing the successful strategies women can use to turn the tables, play the players, and separate the good guys from the bad.
Readers will learn:
- Detailed tips and tricks from inside a Boot Camp for men
- Revelations and hard evidence based on the observation of 100,000 male/female interactions
- Mixed messages women get from pop culture, society, and those around them
- How to make any environment work in their favor
- What men really care about when looking for women and how to impress them
- How to meet the kind of man you're looking for
- And so much more!
Whether they want a one-night stand, a second date, or a long-term relationship, IT'S YOUR MOVE is the key to helping women get the relationship they truly want.
- -Delve into the secrets of a Love Systems Bootcamp - Men from across the world pay thousands of dollars to learn the rules of attraction and specific techniques to get the women they desire.
- -Learn what goes on inside a Love Systems program
- -What men are doing to become more successful with YOU
- -Five common misconceptions men who want to improve their chances with you get
- -Attraction tends to be very counterintuitive
- -What men AND women think they want is not always what they respond to
- -Men learning how women thing and vise versa helps interactions and relationships as a whole
- -A typical Love Systems Bootcamp contains a weekend of seminar, practice, and in-field demonstrations and training
- -Learn the Love Systems Triad the roadmap to how men use emotional, physical, and logistical progression to meet and attract women
- -Approach Anxiety might keep a guy from ever talking to you, but you can make it easier for him
- -Use everything men learn in a Bootcamp to your advantage
- -The Top 5 Misconceptions about men who take a Love Systems Bootcamp
- -The 5 Secrets of 100,000 Pickups - The collective knowledge of every Love Systems instructor helps you understand what you're REALLY attracted to and want in a man. Caution: You may not believe it at first!
- -Some you may know: looks, confidence, humor. Some you won't, did you know you were more attracted to a man when other women want him?
- -Understand why you're attracted to some of these things (or not). Then decide if that's a good or bad thing
- -Five secrets you may or may not know you're attracted to
- -Why you're attracted to a man who isn't the stereotypical "Nice Guy"
- -This chapter helps you challenge conventional wisdom and understand how dating, sex, relationships, and everything in between really works by showing where our ideas went wrong
- -Explore the 7 areas in your body, social circle, and the media that's to blame for misguided ideas about dating
- -Learn how and why most people don't know what they really want
- -What most women logically state they want in a man is not the same as the emotional choice they make in the moment
- -Why men tend to choose the curvy bimbo with big boobs over a smart, sophisticated woman
- -It's more difficult for women to distinguish between "instinctual" attraction and true attraction than it is for men
- -Learn how both a woman's menstrual cycle and current relationship status can effect their attraction and choices in men
- -Women's genes impact how they feel, especially sexually, about a man and can even effect how they feel about you!
- -Most of what we think we know about relationships comes from a lifetime of media input
- -Your friends might be doing more harm than good when giving advice
- -Your ego and "not wanting to get picked up" could be hurting your chances to meet men. Women might not meet/talk to/go home with a man due to judgmental friends
- -Most "scientific" studies on dating and similar subjects are useless
- -Seven sources that distory how dating really works
- -How most scientific studies about dating and attraction are biased (you already emailed me this one, but it's a good one)
- -Why you're more likely to conform to peer pressure -- even if you know the right choice
- -How much of what you're attracted to is reinforced through evolution
- -FINALLY learn what men really want and why. Straight from the man who has heard it from thousands of male clients for years - Nick Savoy has the unique perspective of coaching men on every aspect of pickup, dating, seduction, and more. As a result, men tell him EVERY aspect of EVERY feeling or desire they've EVER had about women. In his book he deciphers this information for women and explains how they can use it to their advantage
- -A woman's looks are important to men, but it's a myth you need to be a supermodel to get a great guy. Learn how any woman can make the most of her appearance
- -Men view woman's looks in the same way women view men's bank accounts. After a certain point, it doesn't matter as much as you might think.
- -Emphasizing different parts of your body can influence a man's desire for a short-term encounter or possible long-term relationship.
- -The most important traits to have when meeting men for the first time. They are things any woman can develop and display
- -What men really want in women
- -The surprising truth on how men interpret a woman's attractiveness
- -Stack the odds in your favor - This is not one giant thing, or even 3 big things like most women's magazines would have you believe. Making several little changes is actually what helps women tip the balance. This chapter describes a few things to think about before you've even gone out to meet men
- -The venues that are perfect for meeting men and having fun. Don't go to the easiest places to meet men, go to the places you can meet men you like
- -6 fashion tips from the male perspective. It's much simpler to dress to impress than you think (and will probably save a ton of time)
- -Which friends you take with you when you go out can have a big impact on the number and type of men you meet (or if you're able to at all. Your friend could be sabotaging you!)
- -Find out where to meet men who interest YOU
- -How you can save money and look better with the clothes you choose
- -How to stand out to men, even compared with your more attractive friends
- -One easy trick to get attention when you want it or none when you don't
- -The 15% rule of fashion
- -Why you should consider who you go out on the town with
- -Learn the shocking truth of how your friends might be sabotaging you -- and they don't even know they're doing it!
- -Dive into the Dos and Don'ts of how to meet the greatest possible number of men without sacrificing quality - There's much more a woman can do when she's out to meet men than most know about. How and where you stand in a venue can actually make it easier or harder for men to approach
- -Learn how to make the best possible first impression. It only takes a few seconds and can be learned in one night!
- -Find out why it's best to ignore the first impression you get from a man you meet
- -A woman projecting confidence shows she has a lot to offer and is likely to get more men to approach her to learn more about her
- -Read a special excerpt on online dating and have millions of men at your fingertips
- -There are better areas within a venue to be approached by men and women can circulate and be animated to maximize this effect
- -Learn the 4 techniques to get the specific man you want to approach you
- -10 secrets to beat the competition in online dating
- -How to make the perfect first impression every time
- -Learn how to have more men approach you and how to get that certain man to see you
- -Increase the odds of having men chase you
- -Not every man you meet has to be a complete stranger! Learn how to meet men within your social circle - A man in your social circle could be the coworker you've never had a chance to get closer to or a friend of a friend that you want to make a great first impression with. For any woman that has that man in her life that she is interested in as "more than acquaintances," this chapter shows them how to explore the possibility without harming friendships, personal or professional reputation in the process.
- -Making connections to anyone you see on a daily basis could lead to a meeting with a man you're interested in. Be outgoing and receptive
- -Attending social or work related events can give women a chance to show off her personality in a new light
- -Choosing extracurricular activities that you're interested in gives you commonalties with the men present
- -Use your job to meet men without jeopardizing your career
- -Discover and use your most powerful tool that you already have to meet men
- -You've got men approaching you. Now what? - IYM breaks down the first conversation from everything a woman should be thinking to everything a woman should be doing to project attractiveness while making the man work for your attention at the same time. Making him chase you a little is a good thing! This chapter shows you how.
- -The man should never know you're trying to attract him
- -Non-verbal communication (body language) is just as important, if not more so, in attracting a man
- -The tools a woman can use in her "physical conversation" with a man to make him attracted
- -The "Seduction Stare" trick that's guaranteed to create sexual tension and raise intrigue in any interaction. With a little practice it's deadly!
- -The list of subjects to NEVER talk about in your first interactions with a man. They kill attraction each and every time
- -How to be a challenge to any man and how to adjust it to fit the situation
- -How to tell when a guy is interested in you 9 out of 10 times
- -Discover if a guy is trying to fly under the radar and how to see through it
- -What should go on in your head when talking to a man
- -5 attraction switches to make a man more attracted to you
- -9 topics to avoid if you want them to keep talking to you
- -The most powerful technique a woman can use to find the man she most desires is Screening. - In this chapter you'll learn how to weed through the sea of men that you're not interested in to quickly get to Mr. Right (or Mr. Right Now.) Make a list of the personality traits you want and stick to them
- -Make a list of the personality traits you want and stick to them
- -Learn the "Instant Lie Detector" test to see if the man you're with is who he appears to be with just a few questions
- -Women can also screen for relationship qualities to make it more likely they will find someone they're compatible with long-term
- -Learn why ignoring your instincts might be good if you're looking for a long term relationship
- -How to test to see what a man is looking for
- -A secret used by the police to tell if he is lying to you
- -Learn to screen men for qualities that you want
- -IYM covers everything about dating from the initial phone and text conversations leading up to the first meeting all the way into relationships. - Learn the subtleties of keeping a man interested (but not frustrated) while deciding if he's the one that will fit the type of relationship you want
- -When, how much, and what to text a man to get those dates
- -Different types of dates and how to shift the power in your favor
- -Why you should be dating multiple men ESPECIALLY if you want a long-term, committed relationship
- -Learn how to use the logistics of the date to play out in your favor
- -How to avoid the awkwardness of "who pays?"
- -How to have "The Talk" to determine if the relationship is heading in the direction you want
- -How to know you and your partner are on the same page about being in a committed relationship
- -The step-by-step process to turn "just a friend" into something more
- -The answer to the dispute of "text vs phone call?"
- -7 easy to follow phone and text rules
- -What no (other) man will tell you about getting a boyfriend
- -Simple rules to follow when you wonder "who pays for the date?"
- -How to "have the talk" and turn "just friends in to something more
- -To enjoy the rewards that come with a committed, long-term relationship couples must learn to work through the day-to-day issues.- "You and your man can call each other soul mates if you want-you're not hurting anyone-but if you expect that you and he are so perfectly matched that you will never need to work through any issues or conflicts, then you've probably never been in a relationship before."
- -Learn the crucial concept of "Moving the Rock" in a long term relationship to help communication and managing conflicts
- -Understanding why men try to solve all your problems when you really just want someone to listen
- -Advice on how to pick your battles and the give and take in relationships. Which battle NOT to pick with any man and why
- -Understanding how to "speak man" can help communication and reveal why men may seem uninterested or unsympathetic
- -Good relationships are negotiations, not power struggles. How to keep the frame of working through problems, not fighting
- -How to focus on your partner's interests and goals when making decisions
- -The top 5 relationship killers seen over and over by women and how to avoid them
- -Learn the best tool you have to make sure your relationship stays healthy
- -How to handle conflict the smart way
- -Choosing your "battles" in a relationship with wisdom